Kaleel is a highly respected family law solicitor and partner at Slater Heelis, known for his expertise in complex cases involving multi-million-pound businesses, pre-/post-nuptial agreements with international elements, and Islamic Sharia family law. He was named as a finalist in the Lexis Nexis Family Law Awards 2023, and he regularly appears in national media, offering insight on family law issues.

How can separated parents plan Christmas contact arrangements smoothly? 

Early, open conversations help make Christmas smoother for everyone. Parents should talk through plans well in advance, keeping the focus on what’s best for the child whilst trying to preserve familiar traditions.Confirming arrangements in writing helps avoid misunderstandings. A bit of flexibility goes a long way, which helps accommodate travel, family events, and changing circumstances. Using mediation or solicitor-assisted negotiation can help resolve disputes and ensure arrangements are child-focused, practical, and fair to both parents.

Can existing child arrangements be changed if circumstances shift over the holidays? 

Yes, parents can agree on informal variations to suit changing circumstances, provided the changes prioritise the child’s welfare. Any agreed amendments should be recorded in writing. If an agreement cannot be reached, either parent may apply to the court to vary the existing order. The court will then assess whether the change benefits the child and maintains stability over the holiday period.

What should parents include in a child arrangements order to cover holidays? 

Holiday provisions should specify how periods are shared, including start and end dates, handover times, and travel details. They should clarify how birthdays, religious holidays, and special occasions are divided, how notice of travel abroad is given, and how the child communicates with the other parent during holidays. This should also include a mechanism for resolving disagreements, which promotes cooperation and reduces future conflict.