Parenting can be tough. You want the best for your child, but you don’t always know how to give them it, right? Well, let’s make things really simple with our quick guide to some of the best ways to give them the best start, so whatever they decide to do and whoever they choose to become, you’ll have their back.
1. Let Them Explore (Before the Teen Eye-Rolling Begins)
Children are natural explorers, with a knack for turning everyday objects into fascinating toys, projects, or occasionally, weapons of minor destruction. Encourage this sense of wonder by giving them plenty of opportunities to discover new experiences—whether that’s poking around in the garden to learn about bugs, experimenting with cooking (supervised, obviously!), or simply asking them open-ended questions that spark their imagination. The more they explore now, the less likely they’ll be stuck to their phone screens later. (Well, that’s the dream, anyway.)
2. Cultivate a Growth Mindset (Yes, It’s a Buzzword, but It Works)
Ever had a child storm off during a board game because they couldn’t bear losing? We’ve all been there. Teaching kids that it’s all right to fail—and that real success often comes from trying again—is a crucial life skill. Turn small obstacles into fun challenges, and turn epic meltdowns (theirs, not yours) into teachable moments. They’ll learn resilience in a way that no lecture or stern telling-off ever could.
3. Foster Financial Savviness (Without Sounding Like a Banker)
It might seem like a fantasy, but there are sneaky ways to teach children about money. From collecting pocket money in a piggy bank to discussing the cost of their favorite cereals, these simple chats are essential. Consider setting up a savings plan for their future education, like the Canada RESP—just make sure you’re tailoring it to whatever your local system offers. The earlier you start, the less you’ll panic later when they suddenly announce they fancy studying marine biology in Antarctica (and need the travel funds to get there).
4. The Magic of Quality Time (and Not Just on Instagram)
Sure, it’s tempting to upload a gazillion family photos on social media, but actual quality time beats performing for “likes” any day of the week. Whether it’s an old-fashioned board game marathon, a weekend hike, or even a DIY arts-and-crafts session, being fully present can make your child feel like a million quid. After all, they’ll remember those heart-to-heart chats and pancake breakfasts far more vividly than a perfectly filtered snapshot online.
5. Let Them Lead, Sometimes
You know what’s terrifying? Handing over the reins to a child and seeing what happens. But letting them decide small things—like picking the family dinner menu or planning a mini outing—can give them the confidence to speak up later in life. It might also result in questionable meal choices (“mac and cheese with a side of jam sandwiches,” anyone?), but hey, at least they’re learning decision-making skills.
Here’s to a child who has a great start to their life, but more importantly, who always feels loved!
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